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  1. smcaaphd

    smcaaphd zOMGorgeous

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    Found elsewhere on the net...

    Soo f@*! E&£, E%£ f@*!%^$ f@*! :laughing:
     
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  2. michael saint

    michael saint Porn Star

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  3. tommyturtle

    tommyturtle Having an Out of Shell Experience

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    Now you tell me.:mad:
     
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  4. Rexxracerr

    Rexxracerr i'm just saying

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    we have all been there, i believe.
    just remember friends have other friends, that may be interested.

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  5. krait

    krait Porn Star

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    REAL SIMPLE

    women look for the " UTOPIA MAN/MEN "

    just about whatever T.V. SHOW or MOVIE they see, that's how they

    PERCEIVE a man should be.

    TALL, DARK, HANDSOME, RUGGED, & has a NICE PACKAGE BELOW.

    alot comes from these " BULL SHIT ASS REALITY T.V. SHOWS ".

    they believe in that SHIT. if your not remotely close to a

    CUTIE ON DUTY, A HOTTIE, ADORABLE, FINE, SEXY, & so on,

    YOU WILL, LIKE MANY OTHERS TOO, will whine up in the

    " FRIENDS ZONE ". they don't want to hurt YOUR FEELINGS.

    but, they want to cry the BLUES to you, when they are HEART BROKEN.

    they want you to TAKE THEM OUT, so they can spill their
    HEART & SOUL to you. they want you to hear all of their PROBLEMS
    and hope for you to SOLVE them as well.

    ONLY, to go out and do the same FUCKING THING all over again.
    women give up the PUSSY TO QUICK. this how alot of them BOND
    with a man.

    this is how alot of WOMEN THINK. if they sleep with them in a
    SHORT TIME FRAME, the guy will love them even more.

    WRONG !!!!.

    i been in that FRIEND ZONE many times over. it got OLD & TIRE SOME.
    i had to bring it all to an END.

    YOU will get tired of the EXPENSIVE DINNERS, going to the MOVIES,
    going to the BATTING CAGE too. MOSTLY, hearing the same TIRED ASS
    BULL SHIT PATHETIC ASS story.

    i'm LONELY, DEPRESS, I WANT TO GET MARRIED, I WANT ANOTHER
    " BABY " BEFORE I HIT ( insert age here ).

    after ( 12 years ) of it, i had to bring the SHIT to an END. it's been 2
    MONTHS NOW. i guess i am at PEACE with myself. do i MISS HER ?.

    HELL NO.

    but, i do wish her the best, and hope she finds what she's looking for,
    before it's too late for her. i do think of her, as far as getting
    HER HEAD TOGETHER, and being more responsible in making CHOICES.

    i hope i answered that in detail for you.
     
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  6. N.E. Woman

    N.E. Woman More Spicy than Sweet

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    Did you ever consider the fact that girls talk?

    After you asked the first one you should have moved on to "greener pastures". There is nothing that says desperate and comes off as insulting as what you did...

    Ask girl #1 out... She says no, then you go to girl #2 ( implying that she is not as good as one, thus being your second choice)... She says no. Then to make the situation really bad, you go to #3 (implying that she is the least desirable, but you'll ask her out anyway).

    How would you react to being a second or third choice?
     
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  7. izinami

    izinami Amateur

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    Hell, I'd happily settle for a friend zone status, primarily because I'm too shy to ask a girl out, but also because I know that friend zone = eventual realization of guy you want.
     
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  8. krait

    krait Porn Star

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    hmm

    please explain the last part.


    " EVENTUAL REALIZATION OF GUY YOU WANT ".

    it makes no sense to me. :confused:
     
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  9. Cheltenham

    Cheltenham Ascetic Kitten

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    I think it is something like "she eventually realizes that he is the guy that she wants".
     
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  10. izinami

    izinami Amateur

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    My grammer could have been better (I blame the drinks). What I intended to say was that most people who friend zone others end up coming to the realization that they (the zoned) complete them.
     
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  11. N.E. Woman

    N.E. Woman More Spicy than Sweet

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    I had lots of friends in school ( high school and college) and didn't date any of them and married a man I didn't know before we started dating.

    If you are basing your love life on the chance one of your friends that are female will miraculously one day see you in a different light, I fear you will be in for a huge disappointment. Unless you step up, take a chance and ask her out. Maybe she says yes, maybe no, but at least you'll know where she stands.
     
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  12. fuberz

    fuberz Porn Surfer

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    Lol just happened to me

    [01/08/2012 2:51 AM] ur gonna be my friend! >.<


    [01/08/2012 2:52 AM] I'm not going to be your friend
    [01/08/2012 2:53 AM] We want different things so I'm going to kindly fuck off now
    [01/08/2012 2:53 AM] Enjoy yourself with yasphal
     
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  13. deleted user 1548766

    deleted user 1548766 Porn Star Banned!

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    Go find a way to make lots of $$$.

    $$$ is the only thing that wimmins really care about.

    So if you have a shitload of $$$ then you'll have what it takes to attract wimmin.

    :neutral:
     
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  14. RedRats

    RedRats Porn Star

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    lol this gif mad my day

    i GET what u sayingand some how it kinda happen by itself with me except for the 1st one who i kept attached to her for 2 years , then came this gir who got all weird when i told her and started to avoid me so i let her go to , the 3rd one was actually really really cool with it but i was not , i got really upset she friend zoned me "since she had similar problem" beside she was the 3rd in raw and that just was too much so i started to be cranky and we have not talked in over a week now


    oh this is not how it goes with me , the 1st girl who rejected me i a senior in HS , 3 years later i fall for the 2nd and she do not know any thing about the 1st i was senior college , the 3rd one was like week or week and half ago and they all d onot know about each others so it is not matter of choices :)
    true , but then i would not like to be with some1 who would want to be with me just coz i make good money
     
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  15. AZRIEL

    AZRIEL BROTHER GRIM

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  16. anarchyjason23

    anarchyjason23 Amateur

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    i hate the friend zone :(
     
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  17. Silv1

    Silv1 Porn Surfer

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    the friend zone is normal it happens to everyone if someone doesnt want to date u and puts u in friend zone move on. mayb later he/she might develope feelings for you
     
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  18. krait

    krait Porn Star

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    okay


    how much later is LATER ?. :confused:
     
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  19. BeastlySoul

    BeastlySoul Porn Star

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    Being a guy who has never really been too great with women myself, I can't possibly give justifiable insight towards a woman's perspective. And seeing as how most guys will be set in their preconceived notions of the opposite sex, you shouldn't really focus on something so relative as perception.
    I think most every guy has been friend-zoned, some harder and more often than others, and there are so many variables involved with attraction that there may not be just one thing that would have started that spark if different. Personally, I've been friend-zoned for being too gruff, not talking enough, being nice/respectful (the bad boy persona does continue to exist for a reason after all) and even for something as simple as not being tall enough.
    The only real advice i can give you is to not focus on what other girls want from you, but what you want from yourself. You can spend your entire existence trying to appeal to others and still fail. Maybe you'd like a better body composition, or you'd like to pursue a certain passion. Try bettering yourself, and maybe you'll succeed in attracting others.
     
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